Reinventing the Good Guy – He’s not the Nice Guy with Amber De Vos

Amber De Vos is a seasoned professional dedicated to transforming the dating and relationship landscape. With over a decade of experience as a celebrity photographer in New York City and a background in Anthropology, she employs a unique coaching approach. Amber equips her clients with effective dating and communication strategies, leveraging her 11+ years of personal development passion to help them grow and discover their best selves on their dating journeys. As a successful single woman with diverse dating experiences, she offers a distinctive perspective, helping men understand what women truly want. Amber’s commitment to creating a meaningful and rewarding dating experience is underpinned by her belief in the transformative power of love.

Amber is known for her inquisitiveness, passion, and empathic listening skills. Her goal is to empower clients to become the daters they aspire to be, cultivating trust, intention, and fun throughout the process. She firmly believes that a single great date can change someone’s entire life and is unwavering in her mission to set her clients up for success in the world of dating and relationships.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • I’m not enough can lead us to compensate with things like love, sex, dating, drugs, and other things that will never fill that hole
  • The Challenge Given and The Challenge Accepted
  • Life is like an adventure video game
  • The Journey to becoming a Seduction Expert
  • Confidence, Charisma, and Connection
  • Charm and making others feel good about themselves
  • Social Anxiety
  • How to connect with people and make them feel safe and comfortable
  • Compliments are like salt
  • Eye Contact
  • Paying attention to the signals
  • Defining: The Nice Guy, The Good Guy, and The Jerk
  • Defining: Manipulation, Coercion, and Seduction
  • What we can learn from Jen Sincero
  • The First Kiss
  • Confidence is trust in yourself
  • Top 5 Mistakes Men Make in Dating
  • Top 5 Mistakes Women Make in Dating

You can connect with Amber de Vos here:

Instagram: @the_seduxe


You can connect with Alex Terranova here:

Instagram: @InspirationalAlex



Alex Terranova is an Executive & Leadership Coach, Performance & Success Alchemist, Author, Men’s Retreat Leader & International Speaker. Yahoo Finance dubbed me “The Anti-Excuses Coach,” and I am the Co-Creator of The Alchemy of Men Retreat, which is reimagining conscious men’s work & the Co-Creator of Your Love Adventure, an innovative, fun, & adventurous new take on dating.

Since 2007 I have led and supported leaders and teams in operations, people, HR, and franchising in the Hospitality and Technology Industries, opening over 15 locations across the country and overseeing the training of hundreds of franchisees, managers, and team members. Since 2015 I have professionally coached hundreds of successful and influential individuals & businesses to thrive financially, enjoy better relationships, and achieve more, all with less stress, drama, and difficulty.

As a Professional Certified Coach & the Founder of DreamMason Inc., I have uniquely combined raw, direct, and bold masculine tactics with magnetic, playful, and spiritual feminine ease. I am passionate and believe Integrity, Commitment, Vulnerability, Trust, and Faith make up the core of Authenticity, which provides access to living an exceptional life of abundance, love, & joy.

My work has been featured on NBC, FOX, Yahoo Finance, The Good Men Project, Disrupt Magazine, Thrive Global, and Elephant Journal. Additionally, I have worked with athletes, entertainers, executives, & leaders in; MLB, LinkedIn, Shutterfly, Godiva, Chase, Million Dollar Sellers, and Coldwell Banker.

I support people in creating real results, integrity, enjoyment, and peace so that they can be empowered and successful in what deeply matters to them and build effective teams and their legacy.