Many people are conditioned to focus on problems and head straight for solutions. While this might be useful in overcoming dire situations, most situations are not dire in modern times. This behavior in normal day-to-day situations, personal or professional, can lead to disconnection, misunderstanding, and disempowerment. In this episode, we discuss various perspectives and layers concerning the fixer habit.

  • Tendency to jump to the solution of a perceived problem
  • Awareness of why we tend to want to fix
  • Generational beliefs that certain things are broken or wrong
  • Tying a mindset of fixing to the value you bring
  • Avoidance of pain or discomfort
  • What if there was nothing to fix?
  • Who are you being?
  • Advice vomiting
  • Learning what to listen for
  • Finding out what the person actually needs

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