Any Way You Want It is an exploration into new and uncharted territories in sex, relationships, and life. Through conversations with everyday people, teachers, experts, and self-proclaimed weirdos, Cailin opens new doors to intimacy and love. It’s like having a cozy intimate dinner party where you get to consider different relationship models, perspectives, and paradigms so that you can have your own personal buffet of options to choose from. So pull up a chair, pour yourself a glass of wine, and prepare to get in touch with your desire.

EP 19: Creating a Hot One Week Relationship Across the World

March 23, 2021

Is it possible to create true intimacy and connection in the span of one week with a person halfway across the world, even when we are in a pandemic and relying solely on zoom?

I say YES!

This past December, I connected with virtually with a gorgeous man in London through a BDSM community I am a part of. We were randomly paired together to do an exercise in exploring power play. Coming out of that first interaction, I noticed in my body that I had a desire for more connection with this man. Fresh out of a breakup and not entirely sure what I wanted, I allowed myself to express my desire to create a one week long virtual relationship with him to explore our connection and practice being in our dominant and submissive archetypes.

What came out of this was a stunning connection, so many surprises, lots of learning, and a tenderness that touched both of us deeply.

Listen in as we talk about:

  • The Power of playing the dominant and submissive archetypes
  • Feeling out desire in relationship step by step
  • The process of creating a week long relationship agreement to get curious, explore, and learn together
  • The power of softer, gentle moments
  • Surrendering to fully trust your man and what that inspires within him
  • Creating structure to powerfully support a relationship to thrive and also be complete
  • The Call and Response nature of desire

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