Any Way You Want It is an exploration into new and uncharted territories in sex, relationships, and life. Through conversations with everyday people, teachers, experts, and self-proclaimed weirdos, Cailin opens new doors to intimacy and love. It’s like having a cozy intimate dinner party where you get to consider different relationship models, perspectives, and paradigms so that you can have your own personal buffet of options to choose from. So pull up a chair, pour yourself a glass of wine, and prepare to get in touch with your desire.

EP 9: Masturbation as Meditation with Ren Rodriguez

January 12, 2021

Ren Rodriguez, also known as the Beastlybator online, is a leader in the “solosexuality” space. While living in NYC, he discovered his Solosexuality and embarked on a beautiful journey of self-discovery. He has since moved back to Los Angeles and is very active in the bate community sharing his Solosexual journey in hopes of inspiring Solosexual men all over the world. He enjoys art, music, penis, and Sprinkles Cupcakes.

Join us on this episode as we dive into:

  • What is the practice Solosexuality?
  • Filling up your own love cup and creating your own sexual narrative
  • Slowing down to notice patterns in your own sexuality and using that as a place to create transformation
  • Masturbation as an act of self love and making masturbation cool!
  • How to move past social conditioning around creating our own sexual journey
  • Having the agency to ask for what you want
  • Shifting your sexuality to be
  • The realization that desires don’t need justification . They just are.
  • Vulnerable communication in sex
  • Lovingly setting boundaries in relationship and sex
  • Taking full ownership of life

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